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How does one succeed in life?

Last Updated: 20.06.2025 01:01

How does one succeed in life?

Example 1: Let’s say you make a monthly income, and you want to save $10,000.

“YOU 2.0” is like your future kid. It’s your duty to make decisions for him. It is wiser to marry a nice mom for your kid, not just a beautiful wife for yourself.

Hates going to the gym, eating healthy, or even doing laundry.

Have you ever seen your wife being fucked?

The money you’ve invested, the tailored plan, and the accountability of the coach make it almost impossible not to succeed.

Can’t control his impulses (women, porn, masturbation, smoking, Netflix, anger, etc.).

Making more friends is a goal.

Why would Trump make conspiracy claims that Haitians are eating pets in Ohio?

That's it for today.

I never raise problems without solutions. So, what to do?

Final example: Maybe you want to be a better version of yourself in 2025.

What is the most unwatchable movie you have sat through?

Opens a business and makes WiFi money.

Saving $10,000 is a goal.

Big dreamer but only in his mind.

Why is it that women are stronger than men nowadays?

Procrastinates a lot.

First, understand that, effective "change" should be 80% systems and only 20% willpower—not the other way around. Do not joke with that.

If you don’t change now, expect tomorrow to be almost exactly the same—or worse.

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Quitting porn for 30 days is a goal.

Most people think their 2.0 version will magically manifest and find it easier to do hard things.

Attending 1 specific event every week is a system. Friends will naturally come to you.

How do I stop my 12-year-old daughter from crying herself to sleep? I have punished her and she still does it.

What I need from you?

Keep in mind that, there is always a system for any problem. You just need to be willing to think hard enough and BE WILLING TO MAKE SACRIFICES.

Porn blockers might help, but they won’t be as effective. And you know nudity isn’t just on Pornhub—it’s everywhere. Don’t joke with fire.

Is it possible for creatures with intelligence more advanced than humans to evolve naturally in the universe?

Cutting off WiFi at home for a month or giving your phone to a distant friend for a month (in exchange for a Nokia or simply nothing) is a system.

Living to your full potential is a goal.

How can I make the good habit (you want to start) inevitable?

In Italy, how do people greet each other when they meet for the first time (e.g., on the street)? What's a good response to that greeting if you're not from Italy or don't speak Italian fluently yet?

An average man, let's call him Sam’i (that’s my name):

Scrolls too much TikTok/YouTube Shorts.

Self-disciplined (controls his d*ck, no Netflix, no smoking, etc.).

Why doesn't speeding significantly decrease one’s commute time? I've done a lot of road trips and driving and have experimented by increasing speed by 10–20%, but somehow this never equates to arriving 20% sooner, even on clear roads.

Having a process that automatically transfers money to your savings account each month is a system.

Example 3: Maybe you want to make more friends.

Has a beautiful wife, cars, etc.

Why do people procrastinate and how can they stop?

Buying, a book like Live Intentionally or any other practical self-improvement guide is a system.

Does not procrastinate.

Avoids sugar and is very fit.

How can a hacker damage me, realistically?

Similarly, "YOU 2.0" trusts you to make decisions for him.

In 5 years, YOU will still be the one making decisions. And if you keep your current habits, "YOU 2.0" will have big problems.

However, he firmly believes that one day, he will (like by a miracle) be that new, dope version of himself, Sam’i 2.0:

Why is America so fucked up?

Do not set goals—set systems.

PICK 1 important thing you want to quit or bring into your life in 2025. Think hard about a system that will make it impossible or inevitable.

Hangs out with loser friends.

Why aren't F1 cars popular on the street?

Paying a coach with a detailed plan is a system.

The truth is: Future YOU is simply YOU, but older and more tired.

Example 4: Maybe you want to quit porn for 30 days.

Do you believe that the portrayal of smoking in films and music videos contributes to the glamorization of cigarettes in society?

How can I make it impossible to fall into a specific bad habit (you want to quit)?

Losers and winners have the same goals. The difference is their systems.

Example 2: Maybe you want to lose weight.

Like Sam’i, 99% of men treat their future selves like strangers—completely different from who they are right now.

Losing 20kg is a goal.

Ask yourself: